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JUICY JULY Day 3 (A B.U.D. Special Prayer Programme)

Tuesday 3 July 2018.




Text: Matthew 6:33 “Steep your life in God-reality, God-initiative, God-provisions. Don’t worry about missing out. You’ll find all your everyday human concerns will be met.” (MSG)

Please let your heart be open and your spirit ready for what God wants to do in your life at this time, and indeed your life will become juicy in Jesus name. Amen.

Remember, we are in the month of PERFECTION!!!

The Lord is perfecting all that concerns you in Jesus name. Amen.

First home work for you is to look up the word “STEEP” according to our text, in your dictionary. When you have fully understand the word and it has sink in, then you can continue with the bulletin.


Becoming His Choice Lady is a function of steeping your life (withholding nothing) in God-everything!

This means your life is solely dependent on God, everything about your life.

Think of everything that makes up your life: your ideas, mind-set, thoughts, emotions, concerns, needs, personality, desires, attractions, beliefs, opinions, your marriage etc. and simply hand it all over to God. Turn them all in.

Have you turned them all in?

Until you do so, you’ll be short-changing yourself, and becoming the kind of lady, woman, sister, wife… He wants you to be will not be achieved.

Steep your life in God-reality” God’s reality is God saying when you seek me you’ll find me. Seek me (GOD) = Find me (GOD)!

If you seek any other thing (permissive Will in all its form), you will get any other thing.

Steep your life in God-initiative”

Read Proverbs 16:33. You may choose to propose, it is God who disposes. And that is simply God’s initiative. Understand this and your life would be better for it.

Steep your life in God-provision” This is God saying my gifts makes rich and there is no sorrow in it.

Everything you have and will ever have is God’s provisions for you.

Have you ever seen a baby who choose to provide for him/herself? I doubt.

Become a baby, let God make all the provisions for you, including the husband to marry, the gender of baby to have, the kind of school to go, the type of course to study, the kind of job to go for, the type of business to do, etc.

Do these things and be sure never to miss out on anything. As a matter of fact, you will have no worries whatsoever.

And everything your heart is concerned about: husband, children, admission, school fees, job, business opportunity, etc. will be met.

TO THE MARRIED AND EXPECTANT (Mothers and Mothers To Be)

That child will come.

Exodus 1:19 “the midwives answered Pharaoh, “The Hebrew women aren’t like the Egyptian women; they’re vigorous. Before the midwife can get there, they’ve already had the baby.” (MSG)

Exodus 2:2a “The woman became pregnant and had a son.” (MSG)

Exodus 23:25-26 “But you – you serve your GOD and he’ll bless your food and your water. I’ll get rid of the sickness among you; there won’t be any miscarriages nor barren women in your land. I’ll make sure you live full and complete lives.” (MSG)

Psalms 127:3 “Don’t you see that children are God’s best gifts? The fruit of the womb his generous legacy? (MSG)

Proverbs 22:6 “point your kids in the right direction- when they’re old they won’t be lost.” (MSG)

(Pause here. Pick up your Bible. Read and Pray with Proverbs 31.)

Psalms 144:12 “Make our sons in their prime like sturdy oak trees, Our daughters as shapely and bright as fields of wildflowers.” (MSG)

Isaiah 54:13 “All your children will have God for their teacher- what a mentor for your children.” (MSG)

Isaiah 66:7-9 “Before she went into labour, she had the baby. Before the birth pangs hit, she delivered a son. Has anyone ever heard of such a thing? Has anyone seen anything like this? A country born in a day? A nation born in a flash? But Zion was barely in labour when she had her babies! Do I, the One who delivers babies, shut the womb?” (MSG)

Luke 2:52 “and Jesus matured, growing up in both body and spirit,blessed by both God and people.” (MSG)

Now, receive these words, personalise them and pray with them until you’re sure you have received your assurance of answered prayers.

Note: I will share some confessions of faith with you. The confessions are not written by me but an extract from a book.

TO THE SINGLES (Engaged Spinsters and Sought-after Spinsters)

Notice I didn’t use the word “search”. This is because you’re not to search but rather, to be sought after (searched for). So sisters, keep your calm! You will be found by the right man God has prepared for you in Jesus name. Amen.

Don’t mistake engagement for marriage. Until you’re married, you’re not married.

To you sought afters spinsters, waiting might be hard but trust me, it’s gonna pay off eventually.

This would have been a great opportunity to share my story but I will wait until another time. I don’t want to make this bulletin too long.

You are God’s handmaid and you’re precious in His eye.

I want you to know that God’s plan for you is not seasonal. His eye is on you, always.

Hmmm… You need a man with the same vision of where God is taking you; a man with assignment, a man of purpose.

This is why you must patiently wait for God, wait on Him and He’ll do it at the very right time.

Don’t allow your strength to fail you. Constantly confess “The Lord is the strength of my life”.

Isaiah 40:31 “But those who wait upon God get fresh strength. They spread their wings and soar like eagles, they run and don’t get tired, they walk and don’t lag behind.” (MSG)

Hebrews 6:15 “Abraham stuck it out and got everything that had been promised to Him.” (MSG)

If you must become His choice lady, you must learn to be patient, because He works according to His schedule and not yours.

What God accomplishes in you while you’re waiting is often more important than the thing you’re waiting for.

Waiting isn’t simply something you do in order to get what you want; waiting produces patience; maturity; understanding and character.

All these virues are more important than the husband you seek for, if you’re without them your marriage won’t work.

Also, waiting isn’t an excuse for dodging reality, shirking your responsibility, or not doing the right thing. Learn to discipline yourself in all areas and aspect of life.

Waiting means making a decision to trust and obey God when things aren’t going the way you planned.

Just to encourage you, I’ll share a bit of my story.

In July 2011, I got confirmation from God that the man I’m married to today is my husband. Therefore, in the same July 2011, I gave him (my husband) my answer. This was after he had waited for seven (7) good months for me to pray through.

To cut the long story short, five (5) months down the line, we broke up!

Five (5) years after we broke up, God brought us back together.

Nine (9) months after God brought us back together, we were married!

Now, I’ll like you to take note of all the figures; 7,5,5,9.

7= perfection

5= grace

5= grace

9= fruit of the Spirit

I didn’t understand all these things until now that I’m writing this bulletin! As a matter of truth, it never occurred to me until the moment of writing it in this very bulletin.

At this point, I want to say a very big THANK YOU to Elizabeth Oyebola Oyekunle for this great privilege. I’m glad I didn’t reject this timely assignment.

God bless you ‘Baby Gael’… Kisses and Hug!

Now, someone wants to ask what happened during those years of separation. Well, it was a difficult period of waiting but I waited anyway, glory to God. And it is owed to what God actually told me.

The question I would like to ask you now is ‘what did God tell you or what has God told you? Hold on to that Word…

You cannot be waiting and not communicate with God. PRAY THROUGH…


Run with what God has said to you. The confirmation I had received from God in July 2011 never changed, it was only the process that changed.

Keep listening to hear Him. God will speak again, so your strength will not fail, just so you keep trusting.

Three years after we broke up, I was fasting and praying to hear God concerning another brother who had said God was leading him to me. I chose to pray because I had told him I’ll pray about it, so to fulfil all righteousness, I kept to my word.

And while I was praying to hear God concerning this new guy, God rather spoke to me concerning the old guy (my husband).

I heard God tell me “He is coming back”, trust me, I didn’t need anybody to tell me it was a NO to the other guy. As a matter of truth, I rounded off that fasting instantly. So, don’t stop communicating with GO!

Focus your attention on building your relationship with God. If your heart is hidden in God, that prospective husband will have no choice than to go through Him (GOD).

You are beautiful, add virtue! Work on yourself. No man wants to marry a woman without character.

Keep a diary of your communications with GOD. As I’m preparing this bulletin, I had to refer back to my old diary. Write it all down! You’ll need it even when you eventually get married, because the wind will blow, the storm would rage, it is the Word you have that will keep you going.

Holy Spirit will teach you the rest, so stay connected.


Tell yourself that you don’t want an empty rush of emotions, or a feeling just for the moment.

I desperately desire something deeper, something way from the soul within, not from the surface of feelings or emotions merely, but a deeper depth of something strong- something that stems from the Cross; LOVE – even from the in-filling of the fullness of Christ in my heart, in my life. Morning after morning after morning.

Pray with this scriptures: Ephesians 1: 17-23, Ephesians 3: 14-21, Colossians 1: 9-14, II Thessalonians 1: 11&12.

I ask that the eyes of your understanding be opened before you say “I Do Wed” in Jesus name. Amen.


I believe as you read through the bulletin, Holy Spirit inspired prayers are stirring up in your heart.

Please go ahead and pray as the Spirit leads.

Always remember, Becoming His Choice Lady is contingent on you steeping your life in God-reality, God-initiative, and God-provisions.

Though I have a lot to share but I also believe that BUD is not running away either.

Until another time, keep steeping your life in GOD-everything, stay connected to God and remain Juicy all the days of your life.

You are perfected in Jesus name. Amen.

Thanks so much Khemzy Nita.

Its time to pray my dear sisters. Bit before then, let me have a brief talk with the single ladies. If course we are of the majority.

Some are teenagers.

Some are ripe for marriage.

Some feel they are overripe for marriage.(And of course its not true. You are fresh and fresh!)

So, this is for everyone including those who aren’t even ready to get married.

The best way to arrest delay in marriage and even wrong marriage is to engage in constant wrestling bouts with the enemy (who strongly hates the institution of marriage).

God is waiting for you to fight it out with your enemy.

No word of God shall lack power of fulfillment!

God’s Word is always backed by His authority and we know His words cannot return to Him void.

We serve a God that cannot lie. His Will, purpose and Word concerning our lives will surely come to pass.

God is the one that instituted marriage and He performed the first wedding ceremony in Genesis chapter 2.

God has a man for every woman and if you feel that you have lost God’s perfect will for your life, don’t forget that for every Vashti there is an Esther.

Lateness in marriage can come as a result of collective captivity, manipulations of household wickedness, spirit husband/wife and other anti-marriage forces.

In His time God makes all things beautiful” (Ecclesiastes 3:11).

The God that makes all things beautiful, will step into your situation, break down every wall of partition between you and your God-ordained partner (Ephesians 2:14) and gather you together by His Spirit (Isaiah 34:16; Ephesians 2:13).

Our God is faithful! He never comes late. He will hasten His words (concerning your marriage) to perform it. (Jeremiah 1:12).


Habakkuk 2:3 says, “For the vision is yet for an appointed time, but at the end it shall speak, and not lie: though it tarry, wait for it; because it will surely come, it will not tarry.”

Isaiah 34:16 says, “Seek ye out of the book of the Lord, and read: no one of these shall fail, none shall want her mate: for my mouth it hath commanded, and his spirit it hath gathered them.

Philip. 2:9-10 says, “Wherefore God also hath highly exalted him, and given him a name which is above every name: [10] That at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, of things in heaven, and things in earth, and things under the earth;”

Col. 2:13 says, “And you, being dead in your sins and the uncircumcision of your flesh, hath he quickened together with him, having forgiven you all trespasses;”

Rev. 12:11 says, “And they overcame him by the blood of the Lamb, and by the word of their testimony; and they loved not their lives unto the death.”

Luke 1:37 says, “For with God nothing shall be impossible”

Begin to sing praises to the Lord.

Worship Him for instituting marriage.

Thank Him for being interested in all areas of your life.

Adorw Him for that choice man He has for you.

Keep praising the Lord because He is coming through for you.

Thank the Lord because your miracle has come.

Ask the Lord to forgive you any sin that would hinder answers to your prayers.

In Jesus’ Mighty Name we have prayed. Amen.

(Be ready for vigorous prayers. Take the position that is suitable for you.)

Lord, make known to me the secrets of my inner life. Help me Lord, to discover my real self.

Oh Lord, let every imagination of the enemy against my marital life be rendered impotent, in the Name of Jesus.

I refuse to co-operate with any anti-marriage spells and curses, in the Name of Jesus.

I cancel every bewitchment fashioned against my settling down in marriage, in the Name of Jesus.

Let every force magnetizing the wrong people to me be paralyzed, in the Name of Jesus.

I break every covenant of marital failure and late marriage in my life in the Name of Jesus.

10. I cancel every spiritual wedding conducted consciously or unconsciously on my behalf, in the Name of Jesus.

I remove the hand of household wickedness from my marital life, in the name of Jesus. (Pray in the Spirit for a while before leaving this prayer point)

My Father, let every incantation, incisions, hexes and other spiritually harmful activities working against me, be completely neutralized, in the Name of Jesus.

I command all forces of evil manipulating, delaying or hindering marriage to be completely paralyzed, in the Name of Jesus.

Let all evil anti-marriage marks on my body be removed, in Jesus’ Name.

(Read Galatians 6:17 aloud and keep repeating for like 7times)

Lord, restore me to the perfect way in which You created me if I have been altered in the Name of Jesus.

Father, let Your fire destroy every satanic weapon fashioned against my marriage, in the Name of Jesus.

Lord, expose all the schemes and plans of satan ever devised again me through any source and at any time in the Name or Jesus.

I forsake any personal sin that has given ground to the enemy, in the Name of Jesus.

I reclaim all the ground I have lost to the enemy, in Jesus’ Name. (Repeat till you feel a release to move on)

I apply the Power in the Name and Blood of Jesus to my marital situation NOW.

I sever myself from any satanic linkage and any strange power, in the Name of Jesus.

I break every bondage of inherited marital confusion, in the name of Jesus.

Let the angels of the living God roll away the stone blocking my marital breakthrough in the Name of Jesus.

I remove my Name from the book of seers of goodness without manifestation, in the Name of Jesus.

Let God arise and let all the enemies of my marital breakthrough be scattered, in the Name of Jesus.

The pregnancy of good things within me will not be aborted by any contrary power, in the Name of Jesus.

Lord, let wonderful changes begin to be my lot from this day forward.

I receive my right match in the Name of Jesus.

I stand against every spirit of discouragement, fear, worry and frustration, in the Name of Jesus.

Lord, turn away all that would jilt, disappoint or fail me.

Begin to thank God that He has done great and mighty things for you.

He has heard you.

He has delivered you.

He has set you free.

(Start singing ‘Jesus sets me free, why should I be bound (2ce)…)

Lord, I Thank You for the victory I’ve gotten.

(Worship Him the more.)

If you are single and interested to pray for the future, continue in this bulletin if not, we are done with the spinsters now.

It’s time for our pregnant sisters to pray for themselves.

Study these verses prayerfully:

Exodus 1: 19, Exodus 2: 2, Exodus 23: 26, Deuteronomy 28: 4, Deuteronomy 34: 7, Psalms 127: 3, Psalms 144: 12, Proverbs 22: 6, Proverbs 31, Isaiah 54: 13, Isaiah 66: 7-9, Luke 2: 52.

Father, I thank you for your covenant of fruitfulness and multiplication with me.

Thank you because I have received with faith and thanksgiving the precious gift of childbirth as a custodian of holy seeds unto the Lord.

I decree and declare that my pregnancy is peaceful, with nothing missing or broken in Jesus name.

My body is renewed in strength and vitality to the end that I carry my seed through the nine months, with grace and supernatural ability.

I declare that my seed within me continues to be fully formed in my womb, according to the work of God.

I decree and declare from the first trimester to the third, my child (ren) within me is/are taking full shape, growing in grace and becoming complete. He who has started a good work within me brings it to glorious completion in Jesus name. Amen.

I decree and I declare I do not miscarry my young but God’s immortality has kept him/her/them. This (ese) child (ren) lives and do (es) not die in Jesus name. Amen.

I decree and declare he/she/they is (are) preserved by the life giving anointing of the Most High in Jesus name. I speak life to you right now, establishing that you are sustained and brought to the earth in full term in Jesus name. Amen.

Because the Lord brings to the moment of birth and causes to bring forth, I decree and declare my delivery is supernaturally assisted in Jesus name.

I see the salvation of the Lord and I share in the covenant of Hebrew women, I am lively and bring forth even before the midwife comes in the name of Jesus. Before my travail, I am ten centimetre dilated with ease and in a short time in Jesus name.

As my season comes fully, I decree and declare my child (ren) is anterior positioned, fully engaged and does not suffer distress from the moment contractions begin to when I push him/her/them out in Jesus name.

Thank You Father for my hope is in you and you have caused light to shine on me. My face is not filled with shame but the Lord has been the lifter of my head, my glory and crown forever in Jesus name. My pregnancy has resulted in thanksgiving at the end in Jesus name. Amen.

Mothers Confessions for Self

(Confess the following verses Genesis 17:16, Judges 5:7, Ruth 3:1, 2 Samuel 20:19, Psalms 27:10, Psalms 113:9, Songs of Solomon 8:2, 1 Chronicles 4:9.)

Father, I thank you because you have blessed me and given me children. From within me have emerged kings of people, for I am a mother of nations. Indeed, the fruit of my womb is blessed, for they are the heritage of the Lord!

I decree and declare in the name of Jesus that in my home I am a peaceful and faithful mother, for I have taken great delight in my assignment.

My children always find my breasts and laps to lie upon in their time of need and I am such that builds an unbreakable cord of love with all my own.

As a servant of the Most High in my home, my mouth is anointed with the words of life and I have continually declared the Sabbath of the Lord over my family.

I decree and declare in the name of Jesus I am a joyful mother of children, I love my labour of love, therefore, I do not resent my role neither do I become weary in Jesus name.

The joy of the Lord is my strength, and so, I am renewed in bodily strength, mental alertness and spiritual grace in Jesus name

As the Lord has helped me, I do not forsake my children or turn my back on them, but I love them with an everlasting love in Christ Jesus in Jesus name. Amen.

My children and my husband know me as a mother always full of joy, deeply perceptive, unconditionally loving, supernaturally assisted, passionately involved and a lover of God and His Word in Jesus name. Amen.

I receive the grace of Christ Jesus to be an exceptional mother in the Name of Jesus. My children are engraved in the palm of my hands and I do not forget them in Jesus name. Amen.

I decree and declare in the name of Jesus I do not re-enact the pains of my childhood in my children, rather I declare old things are passed away and all things have become new in Jesus name. Amen.

My husband and I raise our children, we are anointed parents and we do not discourage our children but we lead them in Christ in all things. We instruct them in righteousness and the law of kindness is upon our lips.

I decree and declare in the name of Jesus that other mothers have done well but I (insert your name) excel them to the praise of God’s name in Jesus name. Amen.

Pray other prayers as the Spirit leads you.

Sings praises to the Lord for He has done great things.

Keep singing songs of praises.

Worship His Majesty.

For this God is my God

Forever and ever

He will be, my God

From now, even unto the end.

Congratulations dearest.


One response to “JUICY JULY Day 3 (A B.U.D. Special Prayer Programme)”

  1. More grace and anointing I am blessed. I shall steep in Gods realities in every aspect of my life. God bless you B U D fAMILY

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